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 I think I may actually start a filters post of my own. I don't have a giant friendslist, but its steadily growing and my posts are getting more and more difficult to choose filters for. So. Here, have a filters list to choose from. There's probably more than I need, but. 

To start off with, my journal's friends only, as most if not all of you already know. Its half because I jealously guard my privacy, and half because I have no idea what people do or don't want to read. So.

Sexuality/Relationships: Self explanatory. My sexuality and romantic-relationshipstuffs. The sexualitystuffs could be a bit blunt, fair warning. Its also likely that a lot of this will have a great deal of emotion with it, and possible irrationality. I'll warn you in each post if I detect it, but even so, you've been warned.

Theriantropy, Otherkin, Multiplicity: I am both otherkin and a therian. I am an elf, and I am horse and cat. If you wish for a psychological explanation, I identify very strongly with them. However, my personal belief is that soul/spirit-wise, I *am* them, an elf, cat, and horse in a human body. These'll be my ramblings and ponderings about my kin-ness and my animalselves, as I call them. The posts strictly about multiplicity will be labeled here too, though its woven in to all my posts. I have dealings with a few multiples, and I have a headmate myself named Shadow. And...anyone got a good definition for multiplicity so that I can explain it in a nutshell?

Past Lives and such: Self explanatory. The posts and ramblings about my past lives, which contain my ponderings and also memories. I'm somewhat protective of these, I don't share past life memories with those I'm not secure enough with and/or who were there.

Dreams, Religion, Paganystuffs: My dreams, dealings with Gods and Goddesses (in particular the Morrighan), and similar things. It can dabble mildly into weirdshit. If you're not openminded about religion, you might not like those particular posts.

Weirdshit: How in the hell do I define Well. My mystic/magick/metaphysic dealings, I suppose? Does anyone have a better definition? I'm not sure. I'd recommend you have an open mind if you ask for this, some of the stuff can at times be hard to swallow if you're not expecting it. My insecurities and shadowwork and such will go under here, as will small bits of my training, I think. Unless you request that I have a filter of its own for that, if it makes you uncomfortable, Gaarik? I'm neutral with that, dun mind either way, and, well, you have a say. *edit* Cool, he's fine enough with those bits. No separate filter. ^^. 

Trusted: The posts that are left to my most trusted people only, whom I know well enough and feel safe enough with to make myself thoroughly uncomfortable and vulnerable and potentially unsafe with. Its my tightest filter. And sometimes-though rarely, granted-the posts get changed to private. If you're not on it now I won't add you, but feel free to ask if you're newly friended anyway.

World/Life views: Mine can be a bit-and sometimes more than a bit-against the norm sometimes, but these'll be my opinions on life, and my world views, as the title says.

and finally,

Emotion/Family: These'll be my little ranty posts. Depressed, pissed off, snarky, angsty, what have you. Wangst will probably filter under here too, though angst and wangst don't have a huge difference to me. These will likely be VERY emotion-filled and VERY irrational. Most of my family posts (except for the spasmodic my-family-isn't-all-shit ones) will end up here, because my home life is shit. And by vast probability, not exactly the funnest things to read. But hey, who knows. Some people might go nuts and want to.

Self-work: As I've started to go through and re-filter my posts...yeah, I think this one needs to be added, because there's a lot of writings I do analyzing myself, in non-weirdshit ways, and they don't quite fit in anywhere else. I end up discovering a lot about myself in these posts. My insecurities and shadow-work will be under here too, I think, instead of Weirdshit where it had been.

Anything else'll probably go under a general friends only post, as anything else I have to say about myself I a) don't think many people will have issues with hearing, and/or b) don't mind telling people about. Humor and Bipolar, for instance. Or it gets spread out amongst so many of my filters that there's just no point in making it its own. So. There, have a filter post. Its probably about time, with as much writing as I do.

Feel free to ask for whatever filters you want. I won't eat you for asking, even if I don't add you to all of them. And keep in mind, if you don't comment to this, you're getting added where I think you'll fit, and if you dun like what you read, well...its your own fault for not asking for specific filters. Heh.

Date: 2008-01-17 03:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I like to know stuff! Put me wherever I may belong :o)

Date: 2008-01-17 07:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I would very much love to be on all (at your discretion, of course).


Date: 2008-03-04 07:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Hey, we're not new to friending you (were on a different name before :P), but I realize we never did the filter thing.

So, really, any that you feel comfortable enough with us to be on. Though we are most interested in sexuality/relationships because we are also polyamorous and it's nice reading stuff about it by other people who are, Therianthropy/Otherkin/Multiplicity for obvious reasons, Past Lives and such if you're comfortable enough with us, as well as the religion and weirdshit ones, and even the emotional and self-work ones if you're comfortable.

Keep in mind that you don't have to add us to those, based on your comfort level. :) They just stand out as things we'd be interested in reading.


Date: 2008-03-05 05:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I'm still happy to be on everything. *hugs*
Hope you're okay as well. :) Plan to reply to some of your latest posts when I'm not so fried on meds.

Date: 2008-03-05 07:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
*hugs back* *purrs*

You're still on everything I put you on before, hun.

I'm pretty screwed up emotionally, and life could be a bit better, but its also been a LOT worse.

^^ And take your time with comment-reply, its not a requirement. And I know what being fried on meds is like. @_@ I do enjoy your comments though. I'm such a typical feline attention-whore. Hehe.

Date: 2008-03-05 07:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I'm such a typical feline attention-whore. Hehe.

*purrs* Me too. *grins*

And yeah, I've seen your angsty posts, but can understand why so much has been freaking you out lately! Do you also get affected by the New Moon too? That's creeping up as well isn't it? I find that can insidiously affect my mind even when I'm not expecting it to.

Date: 2008-03-05 07:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Hmm. Well, I've not really paid huge amounts of attention to the New Moon yet. I get more shifty on the full moons, but thats pretty much it. Hmm. I dunno, I'll keep a watch out for it. Thanks for poking me to that. Its likely not a large influence though, I've lived through plenty of New Moons, considering I'm almost 20, and I've not been this completley out of whack. Its scaring me slightly, how angsty, codependent, needy-clingy I am. And there is A LOT of the latter. Its physically as well as emotionally clingy/needy. I have an INTENSE need to feel safe and be around people who I feel safe with, and to not be alone, because I feel very unsafe and vulnerable and don't want to do it myself. And I feel more than a little selfish for feeling that, which ends up in me distancing, hermiting, trying to be more alone, and completely and utterly refusing to allow myself to go "I need {insert person here} and I need physical contact, I need to feel safe, please stay with me." I feel guilty for needing people.

*/ramble reply*


Well, that was an insanely long reply to a not so insanely long comment. Heheh. Silly jaguar-me-cat.

Date: 2008-03-10 04:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Hello! Whichever filter you feel comfortable adding someone new to, is fine :-), Cian Legion will testify that we're pretty unshockable!

Anything Pagan/Therian related would definitely be of interest.

Best wishes

Date: 2008-03-10 05:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Rachel was quite comfortable with you all, I think. We put you on almost everything, left you off World Views only, I think. ^^ Welcome, and thanks for the return add. I've not a clue if you've filters up at all, but whatever you feel like putting us in as well is lovely. We're fairly unshockable as well.

Date: 2008-03-11 03:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Please add me to any/all that you wouldn't mind me reading. But most especially therianthropy/Otherkin-related topics. ;)

Hello =)

Date: 2008-04-14 08:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I really enjoyed your Arab-essay in Animal Quills--and, reading your profile, see that we share a lot of interests. (You have good taste! *Grins.*)

I'd love for you to friend me, if you're comfortable with it. So I'm going to go ahead and friend you so you can read my things, and if you don't like what you see, no worries. Just let me know, and I'll defriend you with no hard feelings.


Re: Hello =)

Date: 2008-04-14 06:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
*massive grin* Thanks~. In regards to my entry and my tastes. *hehe*

I added you back. What filters do you want to be on, here? I have *no* idea what you want to be're on Therian/Kin only, as of yet, cause...I do not know what else to put you under.

Re: Hello =)

Date: 2008-04-14 06:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Hurrah! Thank you. =D

As for filters--they all sound interesting, to be honest. So add me to whichever of them that you don't mind my reading.


Re: Hello =)

Date: 2008-04-14 06:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
We added you to all of them but Trusted and Past Lives, which in time is very possible. :-)


Re: Hello =)

Date: 2008-04-14 07:33 pm (UTC)


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