nadjarachel_import: (Cantus)
I am, when the paid subscription runs out on this journal, not going to be re-instating it on this one. I'm going to be making a new journal, and it will be moved to that one. Reasoning for this? This journal was made when I was in a previous stage in my life. One which I don't like thinking about, and which isn't me anymore. It's been used the most throughout the (rather annoying) stage of "who teh fuck am I o yah dats who", and I like to think that, for the most part, my identity-confusion phase is over-and that my work now is, mostly, to learn how to deal with it. That's not to say that there's nothing more for me to learn of myself, that's stupid-there always is. However. This is regardless. The name, and the use, for this specific journal don't fit me anymore, and it's holding me back in many ways-therefore, replacement.

I am going to remove most of the folks on my f-list from this journal, aside from a select few-maybe I will scroll through my archive and make some of my entries public, maybe not. I'd prefer to keep my reasoning for whom I keep and who I don't to myself, as it's really varied. Please don't ask. I won't answer.

If you are keen on continuing to have me on your f-list, please feel more than free to add me, and I will most likely do the same (if I hadn't already). I'll be re-tooling my filters as well, so of course there will be a filters post that I'll re-ask folks to look through, when they've the time.

Another note-this new one will be far more system-oriented. It will not be MY journal, it will be ours. All three of ours, Alyssa, James, and I-and anyone else that I may or may not acquire. If you cannot/will not deal with this-my multiplicity, how it has come to exist, and/or the fact that this second journal will be more oriented to it-or if you are uncomfortable, either do not freind me, or if you want to friend me despite that-please inform me of this. That way I can attempt to make it more tolerable for you.

I don't have a username yet, I haven't made the account yet-I will edit this post when I do. You'll be able to see it even after the new account is created; this is a public post for that reason.

Also, as I know it's a common question (for me), for some, this wasn't triggered by anyone or anything, not that I'm aware of. Might it have been? Yeah, it might have been, but no drama or problems or wangst or anything else, has done so. It's just happened.

*edit* Username is [ profile] vrisanfra . I didn't have time for anything but the userpics-the rest of the finagling of it-profile, style, filters, f-listing, etc-will have to wait until after work. However, username. You haz it.
nadjarachel_import: (SCRITCH the kitteh!)
Seeing as I have seemed to acquire several since my last post, I am making another filterpost. Again. You don't need to reply to this one unless you want ones you think you might not have, btw. Fair warning, though, I reserve the right to say no to adding you if I'm not comfy with it. 

Also, if you ended up taken off of one that you were on, it's probably due to comfort levels. If you want to know why or want back on it, though, please let me know. PM is preferable. Thanks~

So, repeating my disclaimer: My journal's friends only. This is partly due to the fact that I have no idea what people want to read (and have a penchant for not commenting and letting me know *gives everyone a look*), and partly due to the fact that based on the topic, I am varying levels of protective over my writings and who sees them. So, I make up an (increasingly complex) system of filters.
All of my filters and explanations of such in here. Please, pleasepleaseplease, if you are on my f-list, read and comment to this. Otherwise, you're going to have a sudden lack of writings from me.  )
Also, as an afternote: If you comment here, I'll let you know what filters you're on, except for my Trusted, UITLO, House Of Matter, and Household filters. If you're on the first three, you'll find out soon enough. And the third one is not having anyone aside from the roommates added, so it doesn't completely count.

Please, PLEASE comment here if you are reading this, even if it's just to say "I'm good, thanks", because otherwise I won't have a freaking clue what to put you on. I really hate having to go "Ok, well this person didn't comment, so maybe they'd like this one, and crap, they might like this one or they might go "wtbf?!?!", so maybe not.....". It sucks. Please let me know what you want here. And if you say "I don't care, whatever you like", be prepared to get more than you bargained for.

nadjarachel_import: (Default)
*hehe* For a little while, at least. I'm online at the library, will be till about 4:30 my time (6:30 eastern), so if you want to catch me on instant messenger, now's the time. I'm hoping to catch some peoples online, and I'm going to do a bit of the f-list spamming I promised a while ago. I start with post of random!

.......alright, so I'm in a strange and goofy mood, so shoot me. :-P I don't get goofy often, luckily. ^_^
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 I think I may actually start a filters post of my own. I don't have a giant friendslist, but its steadily growing and my posts are getting more and more difficult to choose filters for. So. Here, have a filters list to choose from. There's probably more than I need, but. 

To start off with, my journal's friends only, as most if not all of you already know. Its half because I jealously guard my privacy, and half because I have no idea what people do or don't want to read. So.

Sexuality/Relationships: Self explanatory. My sexuality and romantic-relationshipstuffs. The sexualitystuffs could be a bit blunt, fair warning. Its also likely that a lot of this will have a great deal of emotion with it, and possible irrationality. I'll warn you in each post if I detect it, but even so, you've been warned.

Theriantropy, Otherkin, Multiplicity: I am both otherkin and a therian. I am an elf, and I am horse and cat. If you wish for a psychological explanation, I identify very strongly with them. However, my personal belief is that soul/spirit-wise, I *am* them, an elf, cat, and horse in a human body. These'll be my ramblings and ponderings about my kin-ness and my animalselves, as I call them. The posts strictly about multiplicity will be labeled here too, though its woven in to all my posts. I have dealings with a few multiples, and I have a headmate myself named Shadow. And...anyone got a good definition for multiplicity so that I can explain it in a nutshell?

Past Lives and such: Self explanatory. The posts and ramblings about my past lives, which contain my ponderings and also memories. I'm somewhat protective of these, I don't share past life memories with those I'm not secure enough with and/or who were there.

Dreams, Religion, Paganystuffs: My dreams, dealings with Gods and Goddesses (in particular the Morrighan), and similar things. It can dabble mildly into weirdshit. If you're not openminded about religion, you might not like those particular posts.

Weirdshit: How in the hell do I define Well. My mystic/magick/metaphysic dealings, I suppose? Does anyone have a better definition? I'm not sure. I'd recommend you have an open mind if you ask for this, some of the stuff can at times be hard to swallow if you're not expecting it. My insecurities and shadowwork and such will go under here, as will small bits of my training, I think. Unless you request that I have a filter of its own for that, if it makes you uncomfortable, Gaarik? I'm neutral with that, dun mind either way, and, well, you have a say. *edit* Cool, he's fine enough with those bits. No separate filter. ^^. 

Trusted: The posts that are left to my most trusted people only, whom I know well enough and feel safe enough with to make myself thoroughly uncomfortable and vulnerable and potentially unsafe with. Its my tightest filter. And sometimes-though rarely, granted-the posts get changed to private. If you're not on it now I won't add you, but feel free to ask if you're newly friended anyway.

World/Life views: Mine can be a bit-and sometimes more than a bit-against the norm sometimes, but these'll be my opinions on life, and my world views, as the title says.

and finally,

Emotion/Family: These'll be my little ranty posts. Depressed, pissed off, snarky, angsty, what have you. Wangst will probably filter under here too, though angst and wangst don't have a huge difference to me. These will likely be VERY emotion-filled and VERY irrational. Most of my family posts (except for the spasmodic my-family-isn't-all-shit ones) will end up here, because my home life is shit. And by vast probability, not exactly the funnest things to read. But hey, who knows. Some people might go nuts and want to.

Self-work: As I've started to go through and re-filter my posts...yeah, I think this one needs to be added, because there's a lot of writings I do analyzing myself, in non-weirdshit ways, and they don't quite fit in anywhere else. I end up discovering a lot about myself in these posts. My insecurities and shadow-work will be under here too, I think, instead of Weirdshit where it had been.

Anything else'll probably go under a general friends only post, as anything else I have to say about myself I a) don't think many people will have issues with hearing, and/or b) don't mind telling people about. Humor and Bipolar, for instance. Or it gets spread out amongst so many of my filters that there's just no point in making it its own. So. There, have a filter post. Its probably about time, with as much writing as I do.

Feel free to ask for whatever filters you want. I won't eat you for asking, even if I don't add you to all of them. And keep in mind, if you don't comment to this, you're getting added where I think you'll fit, and if you dun like what you read, well...its your own fault for not asking for specific filters. Heh.


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